Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Fucking bullshit

When I was with ex, we got a set of luggage. 1 large, 1 medium and 1 small bag. When we split, it was decided I'd take the medium one, she'd take the large and the small would be L's.

She had a trip down south and asked to borrow mine for the trip. I agreed, lent it to her. Then I needed it a few months later. I asked for her to return it, and what happened? She told me she already gave it back?!? (I think I blogged about this when it happened). I had to convince her she was wrong, hadn't returned it, and to search her stuff as I knew he had it. Much arguments later, she told me 'oops, found it. I'll give it back'.

Fast forward to now, and I've got a last minute work trip planning to leave this coming Saturday. I'm going to Germany with multiple stops. So, I asked to borrow the small bag (L's) for the trip since I can carry it on and avoid checked bags. She REFUSED. Why? She says she's planning a trip to Brantford and is using it. Ok, I ask if she can use my (medium) bag instead. 'nope'. Ok, can she use any other bag to pack for the trip (she'lll be driving a minivan so space not an issue). 'nope, I'm using it'

I tried in vain to explain she can use any bag, but I don't have that luxury and would like to use L's. Not her problem is her final answer.

So now I've got to scramble around and find something else suitable for 2 weeks of travel, but small enough for carry-on.

So fucking bullshit especially after she tried to pass the blame when she lost track of my bag (at the time was telling me 'too fucking bad, go buy another' before she located it in her posession).

So much for being civil, we're onto pettyness it seems

-- Posted From My iPhone

10 comments:

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  2. Woaah, that's a messed up story. :)

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  3. Wow, that totally sucks! I agree with you that it sounds a bit like she did it on purpose. Even though your relationship with her is over, I'm sure you both would benefit from good communication and being civil with one another. It's only fair and a good sign of respect from her to you to share the luggage with you since you did it when she needed it. Mattering how the break up was, I think this shows that she still isn't quite over it since she has down graded to being petty. I really feel for you in this situation.

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  4. just buy a new set. . .that one's not coming back to you.

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  5. thanks anon, great comprehension there. Why buy a new set? I own the piece I'd use most often. The bag in question belongs to our son, not either of us.

    yes, spend more money because ex is being unreasonable and petty... great advice fool

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  7. Why allow yourself to be the target of obvious craziness? You sound like a man who has better things to do than argue over luggage. Take the high road; give her your piece, buy yourself a new set and move on! Although, this would be a GREAT segment for Judge Judy. LOL!

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  8. well that sucks. sounds like she needs to work this out with you or you should just say "fuck it" and just find another bag.

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  9. Honestly..Your blog sucks and you sound like the biggest cry baby. Get over your ex and loose this blog. Its just a testimate to your undying love for her! GET A LIFE...

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